WOW!

College to corporate world was a drastic change in my life. Teachers teaching how to study,solve problems, learn apptitude,whatever to mentor/bosses teaching,sharing the experience actually, about 'creating the WOW factor' amongst your collegues. Not much fundas in my current organisation,Siemens Ltd with, my boss,Rahul,a very artistic person, an ideal in himself. By saying artistic it ofcourse includes the so called art in it,painting to be specific,but I would like to address him as an artist of his life in totality. He is aware of and pays attention to the smallest of the small things. Practically speaking, it is not possible to be an ideal artist of life, but but he is one,to the extent one can be. These were office hours.

What about the WOW factor under our shelter? Lives have become so fast in these 'cities' to the extent that you spare time first to tell your expectations,problems,fun,happenings,sorrow or ask the same.Descending comes the step of the solving if a problem, realising if an expectation or enjoying if fun or happenings. Gone are days,in time and space too,when partners or so called closed ones realised the fun,sorrow,happenings,expectations,by merely looking onto them,their gestures and their 'nayans'.Though, people say, love can be sensed by looking into each other eyes, but that is a exaggeration,at least to me,now. I doubt whether there is any WOW factor in relations existing in this world ,this world circumscribe in its scope the busy city lives. Nowadays, you judge the quantum of drinks you gulped down by staring at the lovers/partners eyes. Not that this wasnt a case in the days back,but it can be said that such conclusions are drawn exclusively when 'nayan' are in context."Jaanu,tere naino me daaru dikh rahi hai!"

Now comes the term 'fidelity', which is playing in and around the knots existing in todays relations,especially couples. The importance of fidelity cannot be understated today, typically for couples. Far away,in space and time,people have and had time, to set expectations and then realise it,as stated above. This bolstered the relations making them grow healthier. But,now, it is undemanded fidelity that keeps the relations healthy and rich. Fidelity,just fidelity rather,can put couples to slowly witness distance amongst themselves,morally. They tend to feel that the partner is demanding,suspiciously or kind of ruling us.But,undemanded fidelity,in itself, the greatest stimulant to make the beautiful rose blossom and spread the essence of love blossom.

I had in no way intended to sway my thoughts into what about fidelity I wrote above. But, I was just now having a text chat with my weird girlfriend. She has been alloted to some data archival project under BNYM by Cognizant and was just introduced to her team with 2 girls and 4 boys. This looks a simple line, but it took me 5 interrogative texts , to 'extract' this information. Did I mention weird? Yes, he he ...This is beacuse, I am in a meeting, she calls and starts talking and talking and talking , without even knowing, rather caring to know, where I am. Everybody stare at me, constantly, unless I cut the call. Now, here, I need just one exclamation text, to stop her, keep her on hold and continue, when I am free. A gemini girl, Linda goodman says, is actually 12 personalities into one. I guess I know about 4-5 out of the 12. Agreed!

I digressed a lot, WOW to a girlfriend! LOL! It isnt laugh out loudly, it is lots of love!

Enrouted to eternal peace?

If the youth today cannot sustain mere three minutes of meditation, how can they enjoy 3 hours of a idiot movie, hours in front of something around 20' desktop playing games and hours of staring into so called lover's eyes?